This weekend was amazing. Period. We packed in so many
adventures in such a short period of time and I loved every last second of it.
Lucy, Ben, Aly, and I had a conversation over dinner on Saturday night, saying
how we can try to explain our trip as well as we possibly can to others, but
our stories will never do the actual experience justice. Living out this past
weekend will definitely be an example of this as I know that my words can’t
convey everything that I want them to, but I’m going to try my hardest!
We
started off this weekend by heading to a village a couple of hours away. One of
the volunteers had visited a resort several weeks ago and met Naomi, the sweet
woman who offered to house us. We informed Naomi that we wanted to visit and 8
of us then took a bus out to the middle of nowhere. The bus driver dropped us
off on the side of the highway and we waited with some of the locals for a van
to bring us to their village. The villages here consist of tribes that live in small
homes that are set up in a neighborhood-type format. Sometimes, they don’t have
electricity or running water, so you can see how people get both a humbling experience and
real sense of Fijian life by staying in a village. It seems like people here
LOVE hosting visitors as they give guests the highest honors. For example,
Naomi and her family refused to eat dinner until after the guests had
completely finished eating.
Before we could be accepted as
guests into the village, we needed to present the chief with kava, a calming anesthetic
made from the roots of a plant (and is very commonplace here), in an official
ceremony. We all walked out, sat in a line, and waited for the chief to bless
the kava and thank us. (At least, I think that’s what he was doing. This was
all in Fijian, so we really all just awkwardly sat there in front of members of
the village.) Then Ben, being the only male with us, was given the
responsibility of presenting the kava to the chief on our behalf. It was very
formal, very traditional, and very… different. Once we went through this entire
process, we were welcomed into the village with singing, dancing, music, and
more kava. We stayed up for hours doing this and all of the volunteers had a
blast! The interesting thing about this particular village is that, in addition
to guests being given the highest honors, men are also treated very highly;
therefore, guests that are men are treated like celebrities. Ben was LOVING
being the only male guest as he was able to eat first, was called “chief” and “master”
by the locals, and everyone (locals and all 7 of us female guests!) basically had
to listen to and do whatever he said. Just take a moment to picture this scene
in your mind and you too may find Ben’s newfound power and 15 minutes of fame
to be absolutely hilarious, also.
On Saturday, we bused to another
beach and hung out there before we went to do our first two open water dives. I
was terrified to scuba dive 40 feet in the water, but after I got over my
initial freak out, it was fine. My thought process was something like, “Oh my
gosh. I’m in the ocean. I’m underwater. I’m sinking deeper. I’m still
breathing. I’m still breathing! I’m still
breathing! Hey, this is really cool!” After staying in an awesome beach hut
(which cost me a whopping $25 U.S.), we went back yesterday to do our last two
open water dives and our final exam. Good news is: I got my open water scuba certification
and can now, officially, do a shark dive next week! Although I’m sure it will
be amazing, I’ll naturally be freaking out in the meantime.
Our dive group at a shipwreck
SCUBA SUCCESS!
So, what’s the reasoning behind the
title of this post? I talked to my friend Jessie several months ago as she was
on a quest to find 1,000 “little things” that made her happy. I loved this
concept so much and it ended up becoming a great topic at dinner on Saturday
night as I experienced several of these little things over the weekend. Because
I was able to sum up the “big things” fairly easily, I figured that the best
way to end this post is by recognizing the small moments that also contributed
to making this weekend one of the best that I can remember.
The Little Things That Make Me
Happy (and I was able to experience this past weekend):
·
Looking at the stars on a clear night. While
waiting for the van to bring us to the village on Friday night, I was
mesmerized by the stars as I was literally in the middle of nowhere on an
island that’s surrounded by the ocean for hundreds of miles. Suffice it to say
that I have never seen stars so abundant, so beautiful, and so breathtaking.
·
Outdoor showers. The beach hut that we stayed in
had one of the best outdoor showers that I have ever seen. It was huge with a
waterfall showerhead and palm trees that enveloped over the top of it. I could
have stayed in there for hours!
·
Listening to music while riding with the windows
down on a nice day. Most of the buses here have open windows and blast the
radio through their sound system. It makes the hour or two ride fly by because
you just feel so young, so alive, and so free. Plus, they typically play “Top
Hits” stations or else Fijian music. I find it amusing that a lot of times, I’m
lucky enough to get on a bus that combines the two genres. The other day, the
bus I was on was playing “Slim Shady” to an island beat. Seriously!
·
Feeling a sense of accomplishment. I’m not going
to lie -- I’m kind of proud of the fact that I’m scuba certified!
·
Finishing a really, really good book. I’ve been
reading a good amount here and I finally finished The Bronze Horseman
Trilogy over the weekend (awesome recommendation, Lyss!). In general, the
best books that I’ve read are the ones where I become emotionally invested in
them. This book was no exception as I had tears streaming down my face while
reading on the beach on Saturday morning. I actually put sunglasses on just to
hide the fact that I was so emotional over the book!
So, may you stop to think about and
enjoy all of the little things that make you happy throughout the next few days.
I truly believe that focusing on and recognizing these moments (in addition to
the “big things”) is a perfect way to realize just how blessed, beautiful, and
satisfying life can be!